In the book, Dave Pelzer reflects on his childhood and the abuse he received from his mentallyill mother. The ongoing abuse not only affects Dave physically, but also destroying his image of a mother. His father sense what was going on, but he decide to not acknowledge the issue and left Dave on his own. Dave lost the only help he can look forward to, but he never lose the hope that one day his mother would become well again and treat him like her son. The complex thing in the book is that even though Dave’s mother treated him like a “thing” instead of a human, Dave never lost the faith that one day his mother would heal and be nice to him. However, it is clear that his mother would never treat him well again in the book. His mother gave him rotten scraps that even dogs refuse to eat for meals, burned him on a gas stove, made him eat his own vomit and stabbed him so badly, Dave almost die. In conclusion, even though Dave never actually explain what cause his mother to do such actions, he never gave up despite the cruel treatments he received.
Throughout the whole book, the story was told from Dave’s perspective. It make sense because it is his story to tell, but he also made what sounds gruesome and inhuman more a temporary issue his mother had. Despite how his mother treat him like a dog, Dave still treated her like his mother. Dave recall everything his mother had ever done to him in exact details, but at the end he always made up an excuse for her to convince himself to forgive him. In addition, the perspective the story is being told makes Dave sound helpless and also brave at the same time.
In conclusion, Dave went through extreme conditions from his mother and continue to believe in his dreams. Child abuse in any form is cruel and damaging to children. Some may not be able to survive and continue their lives like Dave, so therefore child abuse is an issue that needs to be stopped. Victims should be relived from these nightmares and deserve what is best for them.
I liked how you described the gruesome materials of the book and how it affects story as a whole. I also liked how you explained how the absence of Dave's father changes his outlook on his mother and his life. Great post!
ReplyDeleteThis is great! I like how you include how he always made up excuses for his mother even when she tortured him. It gave a much more disgusting feeling to the story that caught my attention. I don't know if that makes sense but anyways, Great blog post!
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